I am going to give you some advice based on my personal observations, and it will probably conflict with everything you have learned so far, but if you are willing to follow this advice, you will change your future for the better.
Your future is the net result of the intentions regarding what will happen. Let’s start with some things you may be able to agree with. Intention is what causes things. Things happen because someone intends them to happen, or they do not happen because someone intends they do not happen.
Intentions are generated by spiritual beings acting individually or in concert with other beings. If a group of beings has contrary intentions about something, this creates a stuck flow, and this stuck flow can exist for unbelievably long times. The intentions of a disorganized group will manifest in unexpected ways. If you have ever seen a mob in action, you probably noted that the results were destructive, with property and individuals being damaged.
An organized group is a team, and the actions of the team members are coordinated to achieve a specific result. An organized team has a leader who manages the actions of the group toward some predetermined end. A mob in action does not resemble a team, and the results are unpredictable as the mob is being triggered by the environment and not by an agreed-upon plan.
A team is defined by its goals, which are agreed upon in advance of actions. A mob is responding to environmental opportunities and the goals of a mob can change from minute to minute.
If you wish to accomplish some future goal, you need to manage your spirits and their intentions so they act in harmony toward an agreed-upon goal. You can do this by recognizing your spirits and their intentions and supporting the intentions that forward your goal. The directions for accomplishing this are documented in my posts and books on Spiritual Rescue Technology.
If you desire assistance in communicating with your spirits, send me an email at srtcounseling@gmail.com, and I will be happy to give you a free session on communicating with your spirits.