You can go along, repairing the damages from past encounters with counter-intention, or you can focus on creating a future where intentions are focused on expansion and joyful accomplishment.
The decision is up to you, focusing on past disappointments or on future accomplishments. Either choice is valid, but the secret to happiness is knowing what choice you are making and how long you are going to go in that direction.
I see far too many people flailing about in untenable situations where they are looking for the environment to give them directions. Essentially, they are waiting to see what happens next, rather than deciding what they will cause to happen.
If you find yourself in this state, I may be able to help you. Send me an email at srtcounseling@gmail.com explaining your situation, and I will give you a free session to see if I can assist you in resolving your indecision with therapeutic spiritual counseling.
David St Lawrence