What Makes You Feel You Can Trust Someone?

We all know that there are actions that can inspire trust but is there an actual energy that makes a person seem trustworthy? I am beginning to think that a certain resonance occurs between people and animals who feel they can trust each other. This resonance may even extend to all living things such that people, animals, and plants who trust each other feel safe in the presence of those they trust.

This would seem to indicate that trust is not based on particular life energies, but on your familiarity with that combination of life energies and your ability to harmonize with that combination of energies.

A useful definition of this harmony is an orderly or pleasing combination of elements in a whole. Another useful meaning is agreement or accord. So if you are presented with an arrangement of life energies, emotions, and intentions which make you feel better and happier, you feel you can trust yourself to be in the presence of this energy. If something or someone strengthens you by its presence and there is an intention for it to remain that way, you trust it.

Another way of looking at this is that trust involves the mutual creation of a future. You tend to trust someone who is trying to assist you in some way and intends to go on assisting you in the foreseeable future.

The point I am trying to make here is that there are actions that can be done to create trust, but trust is generated when certain arrangements of life energies occur and these are more reliable indicators of trustworthiness than the actions that you can see and measure.

For example, a person can act sincerely and do all of the helpful actions expected to gain trust but harbor a covert desire to seek revenge or do other damage to an unsuspecting partner. On the surface, all is going well but someone who is aware of life energies will feel uncomfortable even if they cannot spot exactly what is going on. Sometimes this covert desire is actually unknown to the original person as it is a buried part of their personality that is only revealed when a triggering moment occurs.

Someone who is fully aware of life energies and is used to observing these energies and the effects they can create will not be surprised when a long-term associate reveals hidden intentions and urges when put under social or physical pressure. The observant person catches those moments when another person loses control momentarily and notes them down for use during later crisis situations.

For example, you may know someone well enough to predict their behavior in business and personal situations and feel free to associate with them during normal social interactions and family affairs, but you may know of certain triggering events which make you avoid discussing politics or religion with them at any time. Their actions make them untrustworthy when politics or religion are involved.

Trust is something that needs to be earned. If you put your trust in someone because you have met them in social situations, they may not be trustworthy when dealing with them in stressful situations or when their reality is being threatened by what you are saying or doing. When this occurs, you have become threatening to them, even though you did not intend to, because you have made it impossible for them to predict a future with you. They thought they shared a mutual reality with you and you have just told them things they cannot accept. When you shatter someone’s reality, you are messing with their projections for their future.

A parent, for example, thinks that their child will follow a predictable future career path or lifestyle and the child comes home one day and informs the parent that they have chosen a different lifestyle and have made a commitment to marry someone of an entirely different belief system. In this situation, the parent has not been observing the child’s life energies and has gone on serenely believing that everything was still as it used to be.

In every relationship that is waning, astute observers will see a change in the life energies of the partners long before either of the partners will admit that anything has changed. Actually, partners who are really in synch will notice subtle shifts in life energies and bring it up for discussion before anything serious occurs. This is part of a really close relationship and enables the pair and their children to handle exterior influences before they become fatal to the relationship.

When there is truly open communication between the partners, negative influences can be detected and repelled before the relationship is damaged. These negative influences do not have to be people hostile to the relationship. These can be subtle things like an increasing workload, a new supervisor, a hostile neighbor, or impaired health from a local environment or workplace. One person may be so buried in their work or local politics that they are unaware of how they are changing and affecting the relationship. Having a partner observe the change and suggesting a change of scenery or occupation can save the day and the relationship.

I have tended to get buried in whatever endeavor I am engaged in and I have been fortunate to have a wife who has rescued me from my own folly by suggesting a change of venue and location when this has occurred. When both partners in a relationship look out for each other, this builds a strong sense of trustworthiness. We have a continuing mutual reality and we continue to create a future together based on that reality. We know we can trust each other.

If and when unpredictable things occur, we discuss how they occurred and make plans to avoid them in the future. This maintains our harmony and continues to build trust between us.

The future is created by our intentions and we make sure our intentions stay in alignment. Thus there is continuing trust.

Now that you know the factors involved in trusting someone, you are invited to do the same with those you wish to trust.

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LIFE FORCE

Life Force is the energy produced by spirits and animates all living things. Life force is known by more than 66 names: Qi, Chi, Prana, etc., but all names mean the energy that animates all living things.

Life force can be felt and observed. Every part of a living body emanates life force. When a body is damaged or dying, the life force is lessened or absent.

All living things emanate life force in proportion to their spiritual health. As living organisms dwindle from joyous exultation down to apathy and non-existence, they emanate less and less life force.

Every cell of the body is a living thing and the state of the cell can be determined by the life force that is animating it. There are as many different ways to encourage the production of life force as there are ways to encourage spiritual welfare. Conversely, emotional attacks on the life force animating the body will damage the health of the body.

Expressions of love and tenderness convey a spiritual warmth that can practically reanimate a sick or damaged body.

Hate flows directed at a body or body part will actually cause damage over time. This can be observed with plants or animals as well. The intention to harm can be as damaging as physical harm.

I am sure you have seen people who can make plants flourish merely by directing love at the plant every day. Well, I have witnessed the opposite effect. I saw a teen-aged girl cause a large plant to wither and almost die by the hate flows she was directing at the plant. When I spotted what she was doing and made her stop, the plant recovered. (She had no idea that she was capable of such psychic power.)

If you want to have a healthy body, do your best to admire it and handle any source of emotional upset you detect. You can actually talk to parts of your body and if you find some part that is disturbed, you can help it and restore health to that part of the body if the damage is not too great.

There are a great number of people who are natural healers and they do this by perceiving disturbances in the person’s life force and flow healing energy to the injured or diseased body parts.

Once you start noticing life force and other energies, you will find that you can see disturbances in a person’s life force and with a little practice, you will find you can help the person recover, if they are willing to let you help them.

Do not attempt to heal someone if they do not want spiritual healing, as they will block your efforts and can even cause themselves to get sicker to prove you wrong.

Do not feel you have to limit your healing efforts to talking to the body parts involved. There are many ways to comfort ailing bodies: smudging with burning herbs, healing music, singing healing melodies, healing massage, laying on of hands and warm stones.

Once you gain the ability to see the fluctuations in a person’s life force, you will know what increases life force and what does not. In some cases, medical care and drugs will help, but you will be able to monitor what is going on by observing what the person’s life force is doing.

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Recognizing Energies

When I say energies, I mean the energy put out by living things. The easiest of these to recognize is the energy someone puts out when they are angry with you. You can pick this up even when you are not at your best. These energies are actually vibrations at different combinations of frequencies, so you can learn to recognize them just as you learn to recognize sounds.

You may not be perceiving these energies directly with any of your five human senses, but you will experience them by the effect they create on you mentally and spiritually. These energies affect a persons behavior and his speech and most of the discussion about these energies describes them in terms of behavior and speech. This hospital sign is an example of instructions to manage your energies so that they do not harm others.

Every one of these energies has been given a name at one time and these names exist in every language on this planet. I am going to list some of the energies I will be discussing in this and future articles. You may question my including some of these under the term energy but this is consistent with the main definitions of energy, which is the capability to do work and this is in its broadest definition is the capacity to create effects in the material universe. Every one of the energies listed below is capable of creating actual and unique effects on those receiving it. This is an incomplete list and the energies appear in no particular order. This list is presented to give you an appreciation of the vast range of energies we are dealing with and are affected by.

Life Energy Apathy Death Being Nothing Exhilaration Ecstasy Joy
Admiration Hate Anger Upset Rage Jealousy Resentment
Attention Boredom Indifference Lust Fear Pity Sympathy
Interest Excitement Glee Serenity Action Cheerfulness Enthusiasm
Unconsciousness Pain Confusion Nonexistence Blame Shame Regret

Additionally, these energies have been given generally descriptive names to indicate their harmful or helpful effect on other living things. These include:

Harmful energies, Disturbing energies, Calming Energies, Healing Energies, Life-giving Energies, and Soothing Energies, to name just a few.

Once you have read and understood this article, try recognizing these different energies in your daily life and notice the effect they have on you and on your body.

In future articles, I will be covering how to use some of these energies to achieve particular goals in life. I will also be covering how to avoid generating harmful energies. And yes, there will be some meditation exercises involved.

Stay tuned to become proficient in creating and managing the energies you need to succeed in life.

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When You Come To A Fork In The Road, Take It

This quote from Yogi Berra comes from directions to get to his house. Either choice would bring you to the same place.

In my 40-odd years of working with spirits, I have always endeavored to keep to the path that leads to more knowledge. This caused me to range further and further off the beaten path of commonly accepted spiritual beliefs and has made it difficult for some of my students, friends, and even family to feel comfortable with what I kept discovering.

I have finally found a fork in the road that satisfies both my urge to discover new things about the spiritual realm and offers a path that almost anyone can grasp and use without having to bother with any of the weird and uncomfortable stuff about invisible beings and mind control. I plan on forging ahead in both directions and you are free to take either or both as the mood strikes you. Our future articles will be directed at Energies or at Knowledge.

Energies

This new fork in the road of spiritual exploration deals with energies, how to recognize them and use them to make friends, recognize profitable clients, avoid troublesome relationships, and live a happier and more successful life. You will be able to apply this knowledge immediately without having to understand spirits and the history of this planet and other icky stuff. You will find the terms used are quite familiar so you will not have to learn a new vocabulary in order to be successful in harnessing and using these energies.

We human beings are quite good at using energies without having to understand how they occur. We were using fire on this planet long before we understood oxidation. We used fur and feathers for insulation long before we understood the principles of thermal conductivity. We use gravity every day and we still don’t know exactly how gravity works. We can sense harmonious and hostile energies as well as intentions, attention, emotions, from the time we are infants and we have learned that these energies are emitted by all life forms. When you first notice the desperation of an injured or dying plant, you begin to understand that we are all connected and our understanding of these energies is vital to our survival.

I am going to create websites and platforms dedicated to articles and discussions about the creation and use of good energies and dealing with bad energies. I will be consolidating some of my existing Facebook-based sites like Admiration Power and Spirit Voices into a single group dealing with life energy. I will also create a Telegram channel devoted to this topic. All of the articles will be focused on the understanding and use of life energy to make your life easier and happier.

Knowledge

The other fork will continue in the direction of learning more about the interactions of spirits and their effects upon us and the world at large. We will continue to analyze the spiritual composition of our personalities, how to create future states of beingness, and continue to create a technology that is indistinguishable from magic. This is the fork that takes a willingness to experience a continuing change of viewpoint and it will continue to challenge everything we thought we knew.

As we continue to explore the dimensions of the spiritual realms, we may spin off other endeavors for the application of what we have discovered. We pursue knowledge because there is so much we don’t know and as we break it down into practical applications, we can spin off other discussion groups to take advantage of what was learned.

I expect we will encounter other forks in the road. I hope that some of you will be able to stick with me on this uncharted voyage into the unknown. It will not be boring.

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