In counseling session after session over the past 43 years, the majority of life changing incidents occurred because a person reacted forcefully to a situation because something pushed a button and he lost control of himself at a critical moment.
The forceful reaction was not always an aggressive action, they were often panicky and flight reactions. They were justified, but they were not the actions that the person would have chosen if they were in control of themselves and their lives.
In this current state of the world, most of us have so many buttons available to be pushed that it is rare individual who can stand up to stress and do the right thing time after time. These so-called buttons are charged incidents that we and our spiritual companions have on tap and unfortunately many of the people around us can spot these incidents and can use them to manipulate us.
These incidents can make us feel inadequate, or fearful, or even guilty if we are challenged in any way. We develop all sorts of social mechanisms to avoid being put in a situation where any of these buttons can be pushed. These social mechanisms usually involve making ourselves out to be somebody other than what we really are. It’s as if our regular personality has failed us so we adopt a personality that will be acceptable. That is actually an invalidation of ourselves, so you can see that the longer we stay in a false valence, the more out of valence and the more unreal we become.
Would you like to discover who you really are and be able to maintain that personality under pressure without effort? It a matter of deciding who you really want to be and being able to be that person and make it a winning personality.
This is not a simple one-shot cleansing because the factors that make you act like someone else under pressure are based on the number of spirits you carry with you and their past experiences that relate to your everyday challenges.
However, the cleanup is actually quite straight-forward and major changes can be obtained in less than a dozen sessions if you set your mind to discovering who you really are and shedding the influences that hold you back from being the person you want to be.
You have probably adopted a relatively meek and inoffensive personality in order to make peace with your family and the people you work for. If you have grown tired of agreeing with people who do not have your best interests at heart, we can put you back in charge of your life by removing the buttons that people use to control you. We can remove all of the signals that tell people you are spineless and ineffective and you will still be the nice guy or girl that you always have been at heart.
You have no idea how many inappropriate messages your spiritual companions send out every day in an effort to “make nice” and avoid conflict. This is why many of you are unable to say no or to refuse requests that you should not be considering.
We may do a webinar on this area in the future, but some of you can benefit immediately and improve your life and your income by getting some sessions from me to handle the buttons that people use to manipulate you.