I communicate with spirits every day and they provide me with information I could not get elsewhere. They have provided me with material for three published books and there is enough for several more. There are many spirits whom I work with every day and they provide invaluable inspiration and guidance in my writing, my research, and in my counseling
The one area I have been missing is conversations with recently departed friends. Several dear friends have died unexpectedly in the last decade and I have been unable to contact them. It was as if they left no forwarding address. My inability to reach them has been a mystery and until today I had no clue why that was.
A former client died in an accident and his wife asked for a session to help him run out the trauma from the accident. I was able to contact him through his wife and help them handle the agony and grief from his accident. He mentioned then that he and his wife had promised to be together for eternity and he was staying with her to help her for the rest of her life.
Today I had another session with them and we were discussing how others might benefit from knowing that our departed family members were still available to chat if we knew how to do that. My departed friend listened to our conversation and finally broke in with the same humor he had shown when he was animating a body. He scolded me with his usual impish wit, “Are you gonna make money on my story?
He cracked me up and I told him I would make that book free.
In reviewing the loss of earlier friends, I realized that none of them had really close ties to family or loved ones. They may have felt no responsibility for the people they left behind and as a result, when their body died, they were free to make a new start elsewhere.
In this case, my friend had promised his wife he would look after her for eternity and as a result, he is here carrying on in a strong supporting role.
Even though he harassed me about profiting from his story, he agreed that he would help further our research into interactions with recently departed spirits. We feel this is an area of discovery that could help people who are suffering the loss of a loved one.
I can already see that our bonds with our loved ones last beyond death. This has huge implications for our relationships with those who are close to the end of their lives.
It also helps to understand that we are spirits having a human experience. If we learn from our experience, we can do better next time and the time after that.