How To Spot People You Can’t Help

One of the most frustrating things for anyone who is trying to help others is encountering a person you just can’t help. You can see this person is in trouble and they are really vocal about the difficulties they are having with life. You are willing to assist them to solve their problems and they make you wrong for every suggestion that you make.

A Person You Probably Can’t Help

They will complain about how others have treated them and they will complain about every suggestion you make to help them. They may use whiny victim voices or scornful insults to make their point, but the message is always the same. They feel you are trying to get them to change and that is not what they want. They want you to agree they are right and those who are upsetting them are wrong. Any suggestion that will help them resolve the problem is rejected if it involves them making any change whatsoever.

I have run into a few of these people recently and I failed to see the common thread that made them people I could not help because they were all very different personalities. One was an obvious victim who whined about the men in her life who had betrayed her. Another was a wealthy businessman who did not trust anyone and made that very clear to all and sundry. Another was a spiritualist who bragged about her connections to people in the field and about her spiritual prowess and was in very poor shape spiritually and healthwise.

The common thread that made them unable to receive help was the fact they were insisting they were completely right and were not responsible for what was going wrong in their lives.

They all asked for help, but once I started to help them, it became evident they wanted it on their terms.

None of them actually wanted personal change, they wanted me to solve their problem without requiring any changes in their actions or attitudes.

It has taken me some time to realize that there is a simple set of questions I should ask when I am presented with a prospective client. They will not scare off a person who sincerely wants help, but they will reveal when someone is asking me to confirm that the mean people who were bad to them were wrong and need to be punished. Effective counseling assists a person to make the changes that will create successful solutions to their problems. If a person is not willing to change, counseling will not be successful.

I think that questions along these lines should help me detect whether a client can be helped with counseling:

What problems are you faced with that you have not been able to resolve?

What changes in your life are you willing to consider to resolve these problems you are faced with?

Would you be willing to accept help in making these changes?

If there were other changes required to solve your problems, would you be willing to consider them?

Have you ever been able to make changes like this before?

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How Do You Know If Something Is Real — Part 2

I wrote “How Do You Know If Something Is Real – Part 1” back in March with a lot of detail and I am taking another swing at the topic with simpler examples to see if I can make alternate realities as real to you as they are to us.

See last paragraph for more information

I have been an avid Sci-Fi reader since high school when I read some issues of Astounding Science Fiction and strange memories came flooding into my mind, and life was never the same afterward, because those books had opened my memories of past lives and other existences. There were also many references to alternate universes or alternate realities some of which were mirror images of our own universe with slight differences.

I always felt these universes were imaginary until I actually saw another universe while I lived in Manhattan Beach, Ca. I got a glimpse of a landscape similar to the one I was in with an ocean in the same place, but the hills along the shoreline were different. It was like looking at a double exposure with the second image very transparent. That gave me the first clue that viewing an alternate reality was a matter of altering your perception so you could see things that were outside the dimensions we consider real. That was 46 years ago and I did nothing more with alternate realities until we started encountering them in our SRT sessions.

We started encountering refugee spirits from alternate universes and we were able to interact with them and help them find safe places where they could settle down and live without fear. One encounter with spirits from another universe might be dismissed as a figment of an overactive imagination but repeated encounters, approximately 25 so far, made it very real to us that there is life in other realities, or universes if you prefer. Conditions seem to be worse in those universes than they are here because beings are fleeing those universes and coming here in spiritual form.

I am sure we SRT users are not the first to encounter beings from other universes, since our literature and legends are filled with references to unearthly visitors, but we are currently engaged in working with these visitors since their presence can cause unfortunate effects if they end up in a human body. It may be an example of the Law Of Attraction at work but these refugees tend to end up in people with similar occupations and interests. For example, our recent discoveries of medical evacuation team vehicles from another reality carrying spirits of wounded combatants all seemed to end up in men’s bodies in this universe. Other refugees were spotted in the bodies of people with similar occupations to the refugees.

I am sure that there are refugees elsewhere on Earth, but we discovered these in people’s bodies when we investigated the causes of chronic illnesses and disabilities. The presence of beings and vehicles from other realities in a person’s body alters the flow of energy and nerve functions and causes long-term effects on the person’s health and vitality. They are a spiritual presence, similar to the spirits and clusters of spirits we have been working with for years, but they do not interact with body tissues in the same way as the spirits we usually work with.

If you think of these visitors as energy manifestations of a different kind from the energy manifestations of departed earth people, you can possibly get your wits around the fact that there are things unseen, but definitely felt, which can affect human bodies by their presence and when removed provide relief where chronic disability existed before. When we can communicate with something unseen and get it to relocate, it is real enough for us. The high success rate of the healing that takes place when we handle these beings is strong support for their existence and for their rational behavior.

I asked Jasper AI to give me its impression of alternate realities intersecting with our reality and it produced about 50 stunning images that evoke the idea of this concept. I have noticed that it is easier to contact these other realities when looking at these images.

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Are You Wearing Blinders To Protect You From Reality?

Horse blinders were invented to keep horses from shying from distractions. There are people in some working environments who wear a form of horse blinder to keep them from being distracted in an open work environment. There are many more people who wear invisible blinders to protect them from being distracted by activities that challenge their reality. If you have resigned yourself to a life of patient suffering and endless worry, you may not desire to be distracted by promises of immortality and endless reincarnations. In that case, you can shut off any consideration that there might be higher states of existence by ignoring the possibility of rekindling your spiritual powers. Just create the equivalent of one of these handy horse blinders.

Reality is not necessarily painful, but it is certainly challenging. If you were to consider that you are a spiritual being who picks up a human body to play the game of being human every 75 years or so, you might have a different viewpoint on your choice of careers or relationships. You might have a more relaxed view of who you would be willing to work for or marry and your choices might reflect a desire to gain more control over your existence rather than to experience immediate pleasure.

One of the ways a person gains awareness of their real capabilities is to become friends with the spirits that accompany them through life. Something simple, like daily meditation accompanied by solo sessions with the spirits who are willing to share ideas with you, will increase your awareness of your own life force and the life forces that surround you. When you realize that you and your accompanying spirits are living thoughts with the ability to help each other create a future existence, you may start examining your past and the pasts of your spiritual teammates to create a future that enables all of you to regain the power and perceptions you have lost on the long, long road downward from godhood.

Recovery of self starts with finding others with similar goals and co-creating an existence that supports and protects you while discovering your abilities and freeing you all from the painful mistakes of the past. Contrary to what you might think, recovery of self is not an individual activity. Our descent from a godlike state of unrestrained creativity was caused by our failure to find out what others needed and wanted before we presented our creations to them. Every time we solved problems by force or helped others in ways they could not accept, we ended up with them counter-creating against us and that situation persisted as an eternal problem and captured our attention and our life force with it. Every problem that has persisted has captured some of our life force and diminished our power accordingly.

Many of the spirits who surround you have goals similar to yours which may be the reason they were attracted to you. The insights and ideas that have popped into your mind out of nowhere came from spirits who were trying to help you. If you think of these spirits as a potential spiritual family, instead of threatening strangers, you will start getting positive feedback immediately. Your morning meditations will start producing positive results when your spiritual teammates consider themselves family and begin to support and protect each other and you as a unified team.

Your first sign that you are expanding instead of contracting as a spirit will be the return of perceptions you have not seen in this lifetime. Once you notice these perceptions, continue to expand by staying in communication with your spirits and letting them know what you need and want while you find out what they need and want. Co-creating a future is easier when you do this.

Send me an email if you need any help or advice.
David St Lawrence at

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A Belated Realization

My interest in applying Spiritual Rescue Technology is focused primarily on saving ourselves as spirits and only secondarily on saving our roles as human beings. I started out with only a human viewpoint, striving to be the best possible counselor I could be. As I talked with more and more spirits, my immortality became more real to me and my long history as a spirit became as real as my current lifetime as a human being.

I have the feeling that concentrating on being the best human I can be is like putting bandaids on a crashed spaceship. These bandaids may keep the hull safe from intruders, but they will never make the ship fly again.

We are here being humans because we made a few mistakes along the way. It appears we used power to solve problems instead of reason and we counter-created those who opposed us instead of looking for ways to co-create with them. As a result, we created problems that we still have attention on, and that attention reduced the life force we had to meet future situations. People and beings with their attention fixed rigidly on the past have less attention left to create a desirable future. As a result, they make mistakes and errors in judgment and create new problems that need to be solved. If you are an immortal being operating in this mode, you end up here looking like this spaceship and it might be a good time to look at new approaches to continuing your existence.

I want to use my knowledge to help people stay healthy and sane, but I feel the real challenge is to regain the abilities we have lost and that takes a new approach to spiritual counseling. Spiritual Rescue Technology has been very successful in freeing spirits from their past problems with caring communication and making bodies healthier in the process.

I feel that a new discipline which I am calling Spiritual Engineering can come up with solutions to the long-term spiritual problems which have reduced us to our present state. We are beginning to cope now, better than before, but it is time to come up with solutions to our long-term decline in power and abilities. Those of you who have managed to put your human lives in order may welcome a greater challenge of restoring our spiritual capacities to the states they were in some long time ago.

This will be a long-term project but will give you something to do when you are tired of the endless game of picking up bodies and playing new parts every 60-80 years. If you are interested, you can email me at srtcounseling@gmail for further details.

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